Saturday, December 19, 2009

Scrapbooking at WiddlyTinks.com

Friday, December 18, 2009

Awal Muharram 1431 Hijrah


Celebrated by Muslims as the day symbolises two happy event in a Muslim's life. The start of Muslim year or calendar, Muharram, coincides with Prophet Muhammad's journey from Mecca to Medina on the first of Muharram in 622AD. To signify this occasion, Muslims attend to various religious activities, spiritual singing, religious meeting throughout the country.


Thursday, December 10, 2009

Are you a strong woman or a woman of strength?

A strong woman works out every day to keep her body in shape...but a woman of strength builds relationships to keep her soul in shape.

A strong woman isn't afraid of anything...but a woman of strength shows courage in the midst of her fear.

A strong woman won't let anyone get the best of her...but a woman of strength gives the best of herself to everyone.

A strong woman makes mistakes and avoids the same in the future...a woman of strength realizes life's mistakes can also be unexpected blessings and capitalizes on them.

A strong woman wears a look of confidence on her face ...but a woman of strength wears grace.

A strong woman has faith that she is strong enough for the journey ...but a woman of strength has faith that it is in the journey that she will become strong.

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

"Letting Go"

Sooner or later, everyone you know will disappoint you in some way.
They'll say something or fail to say something that will hurt you. And they'll do something or fail to do something that will anger you. It's inevitable.
Unfortunately, you make things worse when you stew over someone's words and deeds. When you dwell on a rude remark or an insensitive action made by another person,you're headed for deeper problems.In fact, the more you dwell on these things, the more bitter you'll get.

You'll find your joy, peace and happiness slipping away.And you'll find your productivity slowing down as you findmore and more time thinking about the slight or telling others about it. Eventually, if you don't stop doing it, you'll even get sick.

So what should you do the next time someone betrays you?TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR FEELINGS.Even though the other person may be at fault, even though the other person wronged you, you are still responsible for your own feelings.In other words, other people do not "cause" your feelings. You choose them.

For example, two different people could be told that their suggestions made at the staff meeting were stupid and idiotic." One person may "choose" to feel so hurt that henever speaks up at any other meeting again. The other person may "choose" to feel sorry for the critic, sorry that the critic couldn't see the wisdom and necessity of hersuggestions.As long as you blame other people for your feelings, as long as you believe other people caused your feelings, you're stuck. You're a helpless victim.But if you recognize the fact that you choose your feelings and you are responsible for your feelings, there's hope. You can take some time to think about your feelings. And you can decide what is the best thing to say or do. Then, you've got to learn to WALK AWAY FROM DISAPPOINTMENT.

It's difficult to do, but it's possible. (by Sooner or later, everyone you know will disappoint you in some way.
They'll say something or fail to say something that will hurt you. And they'll do something or fail to do something that will anger you. It's inevitable.
Unfortunately, you make things worse when you stew over someone's words and deeds. When you dwell on a rude remark or an insensitive action made by another person,you're headed for deeper problems.In fact, the more you dwell on these things, the more bitter you'll get.

You'll find your joy, peace and happiness slipping away.And you'll find your productivity slowing down as you findmore and more time thinking about the slight or telling others about it. Eventually, if you don't stop doing it, you'll even get sick.

So what should you do the next time someone betrays you?TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR FEELINGS.Even though the other person may be at fault, even though the other person wronged you, you are still responsible for your own feelings.In other words, other people do not "cause" your feelings. You choose them.

For example, two different people could be told that their suggestions made at the staff meeting were stupid and idiotic." One person may "choose" to feel so hurt that henever speaks up at any other meeting again. The other person may "choose" to feel sorry for the critic, sorry that the critic couldn't see the wisdom and necessity of hersuggestions.As long as you blame other people for your feelings, as long as you believe other people caused your feelings, you're stuck. You're a helpless victim.But if you recognize the fact that you choose your feelings and you are responsible for your feelings, there's hope. You can take some time to think about your feelings. And you can decide what is the best thing to say or do. Then, you've got to learn to WALK AWAY FROM DISAPPOINTMENT.

It's difficult to do, but it's possible.

(by Dr. Alan Zimmerman)

Sunday, December 6, 2009

Its been a while.

Its been too long, i stop updating my blog. Sadly, too bz and my mood comes like seasonal....nowadays. *Guilty* Surprising its near to New Year 2010, just around the corner.....still wonder what is my next or new solutions or complete my "outstanding" resolution...jokingly funny. *again guilty*